heeey lex :) its not a question but just hoping you're ok, heard about the Rexie break-up, and i was very sad :( but there's definitely someone else around the corner for someone as awesome and gorgeous as you :D anyway much love, hopefully see you soon, Eryl xxx
Awww thanks eryl <3
This is literals the nicest thing anyone’s said to me this whole time :) I really hope there is! It’s gonna be hard moving on though! :s
wow, i think your an absolute star for what you have been through darling! I just read all of your 'about me' and my gosh, you must be some brave girl! i can relate to you on the part about your dad (if you don't mind me calling him that?) .. my dad was a very aggressive man towards women, he wouldn't hit men.. just girls. I thought i was the only one for so long, a punch here.. slaps, kicks, pinching, bruising. I recently found out that he did it to my mum too, and also his girlfriend after he divorced my mum. The red bits on the wall, weren't paint like he said.. it was blood from his girlfriend. He sent us all to the park while he beat her black and blue, the smashes weren't 'accidentally dropping glasses' they were smashes to his girlfriend. some times her face.. She was a piece of work, i'll admit it, but nobody deserves that. He is trying to contact my younger sister via facebook now.. i told him to do one and let us get on with our lives, we don't need him.. he says he's changed. I know i actually hate him with a passion.. but he's still my dad at the end of the day? do i forgive him or not?:/
p.s- i think your an idol, and most people should look up to you. You have had so much thrown your way it's unbelievable and you came out the other end.
i actually do look up to you sweetheart, keep smiling baby:-) xxxx
Aww thankyou so much lovelyy :)
Firstly, I’m so so so sorry you’ve had to go through that :’(
Well, it’s in our nature to forgive and forget; and often we feel like it’s our fault that these things are happening, and that it could change. But, from what you’ve told me, your dad doesn’t seem to be showing any signs of changing :/ He could have changed after the divorce with your mum, and it sounds like he has had numerous opportunities to redeem himself in some way.
You can make excuses for him, and say that he’s your dad, but at the end of the day, he has done this to you, and he has hurt (emotionally and physically) at least 4 people, and you can’t let that happen again. You have to remember it’s not your fault, and you can’t feel like you HAVE to see him and try and make amends. If you have so much hate for him, it’s not the right time to begin talking to him again. Maybe, in a years time, or even ten years time, when and if his violence calms down, then you could try and restart your relationship with him, but as for now, you should not feel like you need to talk to him because he’s your dad; he has not acted like a father, so you don’t have to respect him like a father.
And as for your sister, if you do not think that she’s in any danger by talking to him, then allow their relationship to develop a little bit, but make sure that she’s alright. And again, I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this, but also remember that you shouldn’t feel like you have to have all the responsibility on your shoulders, and also I’m always here if you need me! :)
Awww thankyou soooo muchh, this has made my week, or probably my month :P I hope it all works out for you in some way, like it did for me :) lots of love xxxx
fucking hell, you must be such a strong person to get through all the shit you did. i know how it feels to have a rough childhood, but to be able to see out of a fucking long tunnel is an achievement, you should be very proud, also, great blog :D xx
Awww thankyou so much :) (and also for taking the time to read it! hahaa). And awww well I hope that you can see out of it too, because the best moment of my whole life was when I realised it would be ok :)
Hey, how did you get an about me page with your theme? Cos I have the same one and I don't know how to do it :/ x
you posted me this aaaaages ago but ive just got it! im useless i'm sorry! i think i did it in the customize bit on the pages side and typed it into there! i hope that helps! x
Ahhh I have worked out how to do it don’t worry :) I just edited the html code and it was all sorted.